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The
Acorn
Alliance
Putting
Relationships First and Business Second
Shouldn’t personal
relationships come before professional ties? Not everyone
will agree on this question, but there are a growing
number of professionals who do. They feel that friendship
is first and that networking with the sole purpose of
looking for advantage in knowing another person leaves
them cold and is alien to their value system.
Building an Organization Beginning with Personal
Relationships
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K.
Jack Speer President The Delta Associates |
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| Mike
Bown
and Tom
Carroll of
International
Sematech |
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Putting relationships first in an organization is the idea
that Tom Carroll and Mike Bown, two trainers at
International Sematech,
an international high tech membership organization, think is
important. That’s why they put together an organization they
call the Acorn Alliance, a group that looks at the people before
putting together the meeting agenda.
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"Mike and I
would hold regular lunches together and talk about
ideas," explains Carroll. "We would invite other
people who enjoyed the discussions so much that the table
became too little. It was then that we decided to begin a
larger group."
Although most of those who attend the meetings
are involved in the field of corporate training, the
personal connection between the people who attend is the
most important aspect of the organization.
"We were struck by the number of people who feel
lonely and isolated in today’s world," says
Carroll. "There is a real fear in people of being
alone. We want to create an embracing world where they
know there are people who really care about their
lives."
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"We work to find out what
the person’s passion is," says Bown. "We look for
people’s natural talents. We want to know what the person
cares enough about to do it for free if they could afford
to."
Developing "Inclusivity" Rather Than Exclusivity
Unlike other organizations designed for exclusivity of
industry and rank, the Acorn Alliance reaches out to the
broadest spectrum of professions possible. They also gently
nudge people to be active participants in the group.
"If you attend the Acorn Alliance for a while," says
Carroll, "we’re going to ask you what you want to do, how you
want to present your passion."
The Acorn Alliance places emphasis on acceptance of
differences. They feel it’s not only important for each member
to find his or her passion, but also that individual members
appreciate and value the differences.
The Programs Are Designed to Build Relationships
The meetings themselves are designed to build relationships.
They are once a month and include a social hour, a meal, and
three presentations, beginning at 6:30 pm and ending at about 9:00 pm. "Stories
are important," says Mike. "We like to tell stories
because they’re fun and illustrate points we want to
make."
The meeting feels like a combination of seminar and encounter
group. One program included a meditative exercise by Kay
Christopher, an Austin trainer and transpersonal psychology
practitioner.
Austin icon Anne Robinson (88 years young and funnier
than Jan Leno or any other late night comedian) makes the
audience roar as she recounts her trip to the hospital where she
created "Rumper Stickers." She convinces glum nurses
to tie bumper sticker shaped signs onto their rears (Rumper
Stickers) proclaiming their message to the world. She organized
us into tables to create our very own. (My contribution was,
"My other one is a Jennifer Lopez!")
The goal of the Acorn Alliance is for individuals to form
friendships and alliances. "We’ve had experiences of
people getting together as friends and finally doing
business," Carroll and Bown both report. For more
information on the Acorn Alliance go to http://www.abilitynow.com.
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